Ok, I kinda figured that. I guess, with divorce, one of the parents is gonna be out of the picture.

I told DSD that, even though her parents are divorced they still, naturally, want to be a part of the whole thing. Even though her Dad is not there like the Mom is, he still has the same feelings he would if they were still married.

We kinda figured that. Thanks, Lynne. Like I said, I have no idea how everyone feels, so I need to be set straight.

I think that her Dad should be there as well, with my staying home. But he will not go without me. I have no problem stepping aside since I am not the BM/BGM, but he will not do it.

Oh well.......such are the ramifications of divorce. This is why the Lord HATES divorce, I believe. Or at least, one of the reasons anyway.