Bah a warm and hearty welcome from a neighbor, well close enough as in Las Vegas, NV. I have been in Scottsdale for the day just fooling around, its a nice drive from here....We will become your very dear friends if you allow us to, some of my dearest/best friends are right here and we have never met yet....About that loser husband of yours, hire an attorney and get some of that cash and property reinstated into your name, what he did was fraud and a good attorney should be able to help you....You were right when you said maybe you were the lucky one with a family by your side. He will get his come-upins mark my word...He doesn't and never did deserve a woman like you...His loss and I bet the new one makes him miserable they both have to get past guilt that has a way of creeping into the relationship....