If a bunch of people haven't met you at all and you have revealed harmless things about self, it can get easily misunderstood. I know of 1 marriage that accelerated into failure when wife met another married man online. Her hubby was online and didn't get it... This was on an open cycling forum. So the "divorced hubby" is slammed as a bad guy, while his wife has manipulated the forum audience as a very popular member. She is particularily vicious at me..probably once, because of particular opinion that I had..about parents footing a wedding bill. (I don't think any child should expect their parent(s) to foot part of wedding bill). Ya, this is on CYCLING FORUM.

Junk. My only protection was 2 another women who each actually met me in person....to confirm I wasn't a monster.

Soooo..I am willing to reveal certain parts about me, if it will help a bunch of people understand a particular perspective that they weren't even aware of.

'Course there is stuff about me on the Internet.related to my jobs/career...which I don't have a problem.

What is perhaps more care I take, is what people who I work with know about me. I've seen the most harmless personal detail blown up in ridiculous stuff.
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