Celtic my dear,
Actually I didn't get hurt but I always keep my eyes and ears open and don't miss much and have seen things used against people at a later date, that were told to others in trusted confidence....

Actually I did share with everyone at one time that I was a Phone Sex Mistress and it came back to bite me on the butt later when a few of the women got ticked off at my telling them the truth about the questions they asked in the forum and they used my occpation to try to make me look bad, like as if to say "consider the source." Well they soon found out Phone Sex was what I did for a living, not who I was...

It did help me to make a major decision however and that was to do what I was meant to do, and had done for years in the past for major newspapers, and that was edit copy. I took it one step further when people said I should start my own business. I did, and the rest is history. NOW I am proud of what I do, and shout it from the roof tops....

Maybe I'm wrong but I truly believe there are some things about ourselves others need not know, most can't handle the pressure of keeping a juicy secret, LOL!!!