Dotsie, thank you so much for what you wrote : re: regrets. I am going to save what you wrote and everytime that bad habit of self-doubt raises its head I will look at what you had to say. Thanks also to Celtic. I must surrender to the mission, as Celtic's quote says. Celtic, it must have been such a struggle to be dyslexic without diagnosis. How did you get through school? It must have been so much harder than we might think. Renee, I think volunteering is a good thing if you've had enough time to yourself to process what you have been through. You can still bake cookies for her and send her a card, or start a card collection that you keep in a special box or Christmas tin.