On the issue of anonymity, I would like to think that a few had removed the barrier at some level as Hannelore mentioned. There have also been occasions when few members have met each other and that, I believe, result in friendships formed over a period of time. Is there a difference between the support given online or in person? Definitely. Not in the sincerity with which it is given but by practical application and expediency. There have been occasions when I have wished I could do much more for some of the friends I have met here. Much, much more than just offer support and encouragement online. But, one makes do with the limitations and gives support in spirit which is always from the heart. I appreciate that the forums are treated with the comfort and ease that one can come to it at anytime and discuss personal matters at any level. I think shared circumstances or being on the same wavelength, more than anonymity, makes it easier for anyone to discuss personal matters. To connect, support and encourage are the purposes of the forums. It lives up to that. And, I am sure many would echo that it is hoped no one is left feeling vulnerable or alone. Have I come away with regrets over any of my posts? If I think I have offended anyone, yes, I would definitely regret a post. Otherwise, I go by the saying: "Quod scripsi, scripsi" i.e. what has been written, is written.