Hubba Hubba! Lola...I DO like the way you think. Focusing on good, (to me) only brought me more good, not bad. If the "bad" was there, I could see it. Now whether or not I choose to SEE IT, or DENY IT, is totally up to me. At least this is what I have found to be true for me, not necessarily anyone else. I'm not trying to ruffle feathers, I'm just telling you how I, ME, MYSELF, react to things...

I'm in the same boat as far as insurance, but hope to have some soon. Dotsie, don't think for one minute that the BIG BOYS didn't realize that BOOMERS would be retiring and needing insurance. That's ONE REASON it is so difficult and costly to get. They saw this coming. It will only get worse.

That's one reason so many boomers go back to work. It's a sad state of affairs, that's for sure. But worse if you don't have it.

I'm with you though Jane....you get more of whatever you focus on. I think sometimes we send mixed signals to our subconscious as to what we really want. We say, "I want someone that would be good to me," yet at the same time, deep down we don't believe it will happen, so the thoughts run into each other in our subconscious, and therefore, the negative negates the positive. Does that make sense? Our minds can only handle what we BELIEVE to be true.

Clear as mud? LOL!