I think one big box is a grand idea that way it doesn't look like you have gone overboard. Personally I wouldn't care what they thought. Its not your fault they have more grandchildren than you have. If they comment you might say something like "Oh you are so lucky to have other grandchildren to spoil with your love, we have but one so she/he gets it all." Who could fault you for that???
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