YEs there certainly are a lot of trashy women out there who dont care what the mans situation is and are just too happy to go for it, even if you are out together and dancing together!! Nevermind, I'm over that. What i am not over is the explicit and low morals of TV etc. And finding out the terrible things on hotmail emails. My poor little 14 year old woke up at 4am screaming, it seems he was worried about some chain emails threatening curses etc if not sent on and he woke up thinking that Bloody Mary was in his room. He was so shaken he slept the rest of the night with me. He told me he never could sleep in his room again. I have spoken a little bit with him about how sometimes when you dream it can feel so real and he remembered that is what used to happen to him years ago when he was wetting the bed (what a darling). Anyway we'll see how he goes tonite (this only happend last nite) and we spoke about a few options, like changing around his bedroom, letting the dog sleep on his bed for a few nites (although I might need to think that one through a bit more). My daughter then explained all about the horrible chain emails to me and she is going to look at his account with him tonite and help him make some changes. Gosh it is a hard world sometimes, and us parents need a lot of support to keep up with the times!!