Ladies, I commend all of you who are caregivers or take the responsibility for your loved one(s) to obtain the proper care. These are such tremendous undertakings, the care of another adult, not to mention the stress, emotion, and costs associated. Although I don't have the greatest of relationship with my mother, I know that (as the oldest sibling and w/out children) that I will need to make similar decisions. Decisions I hope are the best possible care for her and any other family member. Also, hope I stay in the best of health to support myself until I must make a decision concerning myself, too!