There is an organization called Comfort Keepers that can come and give care IF your loved one doesn't actually need nursing care. In other words, they can do anything that a family member might do - drive people to appointments, clean house, go shopping, help with bathing, feeding, toileting, give medication reminders (but they can't do injections), and there's a sliding scale depending on how much care your loved one needs. I believe they have offices across the country.
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