I have to admit that I feel that being separated is the recourse we take when being afraid of the finality of a divorce. I have always said and adhered to the rather naughty saying, "S--t or get off the pot!" You can nor will you ever get on with your life still being attached to this man. I use this observation for all women and men. Just do it already and get on with your lives.
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