Hi, Jo: Seems to be that you have reasons to vent and it is good to let the rant out than keep it all bottled up. Glad you felt much better for that. Rant when you need to and listen we will do. Keep strong. It seems that you are in a better position to objectively assess the situation with the family's concerns. Your love for your husband will lead you to do what you think is best for all.
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