Thank you all for some great ideas. Dotsie, I have heard of the quilt idea. A friend at work did it for a relative. I am a bit craft impaired but I have a niece-in-law who is wonderful! She would love to help with anything. I also like the paper on the table for instant memories at the party. I think we will do that. My uncle dropped over tonight with lots of pictures of years ago. They are marvelous! Those old folks had gorgeous pictures done at studios...it amazes me! I'm having fun already just preparing for the big day. Thanks for all your good wishes.
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Pam