We do want to make a change, but where we were thinking of heading is not where we belong I realize. Probably, even though the timing wasn't right, we would've been working towards that destination all along. The reasons for staying remain the same, but the reasons for going have now changed. Trying to fit it won't work. We thought we'd go to where our other son and his family are. Our only grandchildren are there. But we no longer feel welcome. We were kidding ourselves, or maybe we knew it all along. What move we make will now be only for ourselves, if we move at all.