Christina, I wondered if your husband's verbal abuse and his use of foul language increased with the progression of his disease.

Not in his defense, but I have seen that kind of abuse increase with progressive illness and stroke. Sometimes the frontal lobe where social inhibitions are located is affected and that can lead to increasingly inappropriate use of abusive and foul language, even in previously kind speaking individuals.

Maybe some of your mate's words resulted from a physical illness rather than simple hateful feelings.

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