I think you are right Chick. It is hard to be with an intimate friend at a time when the person with whom we have been most intimate has betrayed us. Somehow that kind of betrayal can make even the intimacy of a friendship seem dangerous.

I would give the friend some time to heal. Maybe sending her a card periodically saying how you miss her and need her friendship, but understand and allow her some space until she is ready to be friends again.

smile

[ November 11, 2005, 01:27 PM: Message edited by: smilinize ]