Ok, I'm off work tomorrow. I'll go open a checking account in my name alone. I think my daughter and I together can support ourselves and maybe she can get some kind of assistance for her daughter for daycare and WIC.

I figured it out today. My husband spends at least $40 a night at the local bar which averages $800 a month and he can't afford to help us just a little??!!

He is trying to give away all the furniture left at the house now to his drinking buddys and telling my daughter and I to get our things out of storage and find someone to carry it for us if we can.

My husband went to the doctor recently and had a standing MRI. The results were that there is a significant finding which the VA will discuss with him the 21st of this month. I'm going with him. I cringe to think what that might be and what kind of impact it will have on us. If something profound, then he will be looking to me for care. I'm not going to do it even tho I love him because of the way he has not demonstrated affection and tenderness toward me.