Thanks to all of you who wrote, and all the new people that have written. I'm still hanging in there, still hoping that the marriage will work out. Only time will tell. The marriage counselor/psych basically doesn't offer too much advice, so I don't know what her exact role is. I would like a bit more feedback from her. We just talk about things there that we have talked about together many times before. Her only advice over and over again is to do more things together. Has anyone out there been to marriage counseling, and what was their experience like? Things seem to be better somewhat overall, but then my suspicions surface when I feel something is not right. It's a long, rough road here. Well, all of you, take care. Mer