Hi BonnieK. I want to share something with you and I hope it helps. I am a step mother and I put aside time alone with my step children. One on one. It was our time not to be interrupted by anyone.

It strenghtened our relationship and respect for each other. I think you have to be their friend, after all, they are your boyfriends children. Why not be their friend?

Respect can grow and nurture if you decide that is what you want. A little effort can go a long way. It will feel good to 'get to know them'. I think they will surprise you. One on one, just try it and let us know.

I wish you luck.
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