It seems if you don't go, your husband will be the one hurt most and you will be playing right into the hands of his ex. She will be the parent with her significant other at her side to support her and your husband will be there alone. I don't think you should allow anyone outside your marriage, especially an ex, to have that much power.

I say go, go with class, smile at your wonderful husband and make his ex jealous of your wonderful relationship with her ex-husband and let her be sorry she lost him to such a wonderful, beautiful woman as you are. You have every right to be there and you can be the greatest lady of all.

Smile and expect to enjoy every moment. Never let 'em see you sweat.

smile
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