Okay, tip # 6 comes into play.

6.) Tattling and listening to tattling are not acceptable. "If you feel it's honoring me and our relationship to talk about me or allow me to be talked about in this manner (behind my back and in a negative tone) then, do it on your own but never repeat it to me because I'm not the least bit interested...and, (insert his name here) I'm extremely disappointed in you for doing this. It's very hurtful." And Bonnie, stick to your guns on this. If he starts doing it--remind him! "Oh, I guess you don't remember that I won't listen to this."

Another thing. He's either for you or against you and tell him that. Sometimes, they need a lot of reminders to finally get it.
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