Had a massive talk with her last week. And basically told her what I thought of her and her intolorant behavour. She really didnt like hearing the truth but she had to know. I told her that there is always someone bigger and better than her, and if she doesnt stop acting like she is she will get the wrong end of people, and will end up with nothing. And that her attitude will NEVER ger her anywhere in life. And if she thinks it will shes very much mistaken. As for the laundry situation, she really didnt like it when her stuff wasnt washed. But I said LOOK at it from my point of veiw, WHY SHOULD I do it with your attitude towards doing things, to help out. She understood. She also didnt like me ignoring her for 5 weeks as well. But I said that it had my life so much bareable. I told her that I would love to have had the mother/daughter relationship with her, that she certainly hasnt got with her mother. That made her think. Her mother and her have no relationship whatso ever. To the point of her not wanting her anymore, shes basically told us that she cant put up with her anymore and no longer wants her there, and can we have her.(NO COMMENT)So hopefully for our sake as well as hers, she listened to what I had to say, which was alot more than I have said. She needs to know that there are other people in this family, not just her. And that she cannt be the centre of attention, when there is a 5 and 8 yr old as well.