Deb darlin, as hard as it is show her NO REACTION what-so-ever. If she see's she can't get to you no matter what she does, SHE'S INVISIBLE remember? This bad attitude will change. You do have to make sure your husband does the same thing. It's alot like training a new puppy, when she's good tell her and reward her, BUT when she isn't ignore her totally.You can't chain her in the back yard actually but you can mentally, she won't know how to handle this. Good luck 'step-mom' and remember it isn't spelled, 'door-mat.'

[ August 22, 2005, 08:31 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]