It sounds sort of like things are looking up, like maybe he means well but just doesn't have a clue. I a curious about something you've said more than once, its that he is just not an emotional man. What was he like before you married him, was he emotional then, has he changed, was he faking a different persona? See the man I married was a fraud from the get go, he was looking for a property owner with money and he picked me....Talk about an Oscar winning performance. I take my hat off to him for that, I was totally fooled. Were you? [Frown] [Roll Eyes]