I don't think I've given in as much as detached since I didn't cause the problem, I'm not the solution.

If I told you what my stepson did to me you'd understand but I don't even want to go there. I will just say that he's caused the majority of problems in our marriage and also, because my husband hasn't addressed them. But, my husband has to live with the consequences.

This week end, David didn't once talk on his cell phone. Didn't even turn it on. Figure that one out. It might be because he didn't want his son to know he was in town. Whatever. Next time he comes to town he can visit his son. He's asked me to come to MN after I return from AZ, to help him find a new place to live as his lease is up. I think he's trying in the only way he knows how. I will give him credit for trying. I'm not completely cold. He's just a very unemotional man.