Willistar,

Welcome! Looks like your first post. You have found a wonderful group of caring friends here.

It is a challenge to find time for friends these days...but then it always has been on some level. I remember when my girls were little that my best friend and I took turns not working. When one of us was available--the other was at work. Not fun!

Now, when you add elderly parents, grandchildren, work, new and old relationships, children and all that to the mix...it's any wonder that we ever see our friends at all.

Jackie,

I agree...if they can forward...they can say hello!

Dianne,

I try to call friends and my daughters when their husbands aren't at home. I don't want to infringe on their little bit of time together.

I agree with Dotsie, NO excuse! I have also become aware that some people spell "friendship" differently than most of us do....Their spelling is SELF-CENTERED, sad but true. Drop the b-witch, she doesn't deserve your kindness or concern. So sorry about your loss. HUGS

Thanks, Dotsie and Chatty...
I'm not managing all that well, really. Last year I not only lost my Dad, but also my Aunt and Uncle, with whom I was very close. I had cared for my father and also for my Mom, who passed in 2002 (a victim of Alzheimer's). Previous to that, I cared for my other Uncle, who had terminal lung cancer, and before that, my ex, who was seriously ill!
During all of this, I also raised my two grown children.
So...now it's just me and I really feel the loss of those who were close to me. I am trying very hard to find my way. I had been hoping to sell my house and make a fresh start, and then the real estate market went sour...

At any rate, it has really helped me to find all of you wonderful ladies...it's good to know we can share our joys as well as our burdens...so thank you very much!