Chatty, since my marriage seems to be coming to an end and the three of us are probably going to have to try and make it on my meager $10 an hour job, I can tell you I have given thought to starting that type of business. Start up is cheap and overhead is low.
I just can't though. My daughter was making 4K a weekend stripping and since has given it up because she says God can't bless her and won't answer or even lhear her prayers while she is engaged in that activity.
I respect her so much since she has taken a job as a bartender in a club downtown and as a server in a local restaurant for a fraction of what she was making as a stripper.
I have NO idea how we will all make it, but I believe God will take care of us.
I love the scripture that says, "I have never seen the righteous forsaken, or HIS seed out begging for bread."
I'm frightened and anxious sometimes but I know we'll make it somehow and you will too.

WordSmith, thanks for posting about such an intimate subject. You are right to feel queasy. I pray you will be able to continue to address this issue through communication...and some snooping.

Thank you, Dotsie. I hate being put in a position of a snoop because I'd always thought that marriage was about trust and that I'd never have to go behind my husband's back to see what he was viewing online because he can't face me with the truth. This just goes to show that Chatty Lady is right -- no one is immune to this. My husband is one who always thought I'd leave him for another man, which is why this whole thing is so strange and ironic. But thanks for your prayers and hope.

Be very cautious in opening anything now that sounds sexual with attachments because there is a new deadly virus going around that will literally destroy your entire computer set-up. Its one of the worst ones ever. When I heard about it last night I feared for the wives snooping about looking for proof of porn on their computers. This may not be the time.

I heard about this too, Chatty. It was sent around in the form of an email on Jan. 16 and it's something about "sexy pictures". If you open it, it will infect your computer with a virus on Feb. 3rd. (tomorrow)

That must be the new Virus that Norton told me it was protecting me against the other day.

Tonight on NBC at 9:00 EST they are doing a special on pornography.

Apparently they set up a sting house in CA and caught over 50 men who thought they were coming to the address to have sex with young girls. These men were having sexual conversations with who they thought were young gals online. To the contrary, they were conversing with investigators.

well, I just looked at the history on my computer and found spouse having a ball looking at porn yesterday while I was at work. I did call him and told him. Please say a prayer for me. I really hate this stuff. It really makes me get so upset. I spent all morning at home and put Netmop on our computer and will tell him when I get home. It makes me want to divorce him.

china, I know exactly how you feel! It makes me physically ill. I also want to leave my husband every time I "catch" him. I explain it to him this way: when we were wed, we became one flesh. This sin contamintates me as well as him.
Hopefully, this won't happen again - with my husband or yours...

Thank you Bluebird! Yes, I feel physically ill right now. I am at work and putting on the false face, but so so sad right now. He seems to like the young ones. He is 59 and I am 51. I bet I could report him. I won't, but I may mention that to him when I get home. Thank you for your support.