I don't think we should condemn an entire gender because of a few nut cases. Men are just imperfect human beings like the rest of us. They're sometimes shy and afraid and they hurt just like women do. Only one guy in the whole world is right for you so the weirdness of the others shouldn't matter.

My advice would be to be very careful even of the nice guys and immediately dump anyone who scares you, but enjoy the admiration of the rest. Let them take you to coffee, to dinner and out dancing then go home happily alone. Don't let them near your heart until the right guy comes along. After all, there are about 3 billion men in the world and only one who is right for you. The others are just for entertainment.

The fish without a bicycle swims in the huge ocean all alone.

smile

[ April 23, 2006, 03:25 PM: Message edited by: smilinize ]