I too feel it is always easier in a group setting to get to know someone, just watchng their inner action with others helps. But then everyone that met my ex thought he was soooo wonderful and soooo funny. Yep and he was unless you were the sap that married all his fake traits. In tne world we live in today with porn and all he other junk a man has at his disposal I do not think it is poossible to meet a good man. I did in the 50's and again in the 60's (both died) but now the men are just so different, either snealky and sleezy, too darn needy or just plain deceptive. They all think their gigglos....