I do want to warn all of you about this: all of my posts here show up on a Google search. Mustang, if you have any concerns about this, for instance, if you are using the same name in your Singles' sites, be warned. If you have used the same name you use here, they will show up on a Google search.
I had the very humiliating revelation that all of my posts on a previous forum, discussing personal matters had been viewed by the Psychology Ph.D. because I had naively used my same ID as he had found on my Ebay account!
My ID here is different, but I'm still paranoid from that experience!
ARI