Dianne, you got that right. Some men find out what women want....they bring flowers, are generous, wine and dine you.....but they are really bubbas in disguise. Sometimes they just like the chase.

I think many of us single women have been disappointed and we are just having a little fun here - if we don't laugh, we would cry and be horrified! I think we realize there are good men, although few. I enjoy hearing about your husbands who are true and good - it gives me hope that maybe someday it could happen to me or one of us.

I have dated some really nice men who treated me very good. But I would find out a little detail that would make me run.....such as the guy who had 2 additional children he confessed to after we dated a year....or the pilot I dated who confessed he had an affair with a married co-pilot and didn't take responsibility for it, it was her fault....one guy I loved a lot, just couldn't connect emotionally with other people, including me....one guy I discovered was a compulsive liar and even lied about how great his kids were in sports.....one guy couldn't make up his mind so I made it up for him.....one guy chased and chased me and when he caught me, he let go of me and ran. All these men were gentlemen and treated me very good - they were nice men and I was attracted to them. But there was something I could not live with - maybe I'm too picky. I just know I need honesty, integrity, stability and didn't think I could get it from any of them.