I've given up the "cyber dating" venue. Yeah, I've had quite a bit of experience with it, unfortunately. I live in a small town, teach middle school, don't go out to bars (yuck!), and am generally a stay-at-home type, rather shy of getting out and mingling. The men I've met thru the Internet singles' sites have been generally deceptive on various levels. I liken it to throwing a hook into the ocean and pulling out who knows what kind of monster! And, well, like Chatty, I could also write a book, only it would NOT be fiction! For now, and maybe permanently, I prefer solo bliss!
Ari