Okay, most of the guys who "wink" are creepy! Yet, I do find it amusing! Thus, I've not winked back! My neighbor tried to fix me up with her boyfriend's friend. Yet, he is the same age as my mother, so I told the neighbor thank you, yet I do not feel comfortable dating someone who is 60 where I'm 39. She said "I thought you were older." Geez! Will look for the "Solo Bliss" book next time in the bookstore!