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#69220 - 07/26/04 02:01 AM
Re: Passion Holocaust
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Registered: 07/09/08
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Lala, I heard you loud and very clear. Although it feels or seems like I'm the only one in the world right now tied up in such a twisted love knot, through the posts, I learned that many have had to deal with these passion holocausts. It's just that I believed everything was right...it sure felt right, of course, with the exception of the semi rough start. But, hey, you and every one else is right. Just leave it alone and continue to live and learn. This time, I will be sure to wait for my signal from God that the next man is for me. I really thought I had then though. That's why this is so hard.
I guess like any other hardship, it will get better with time. I'm just going to continue to pray for His strength in keeping the emotional side of me from allowing his luring prize tactics back into my heart and inevitably, my bed.
You didn't come off too hard, kinda, but sometimes the loud voice is heard over the subtle ones. Smile really did shine a brighter light on how I'd gotten so wrapped up in this rotten man's lust thinking it was love.
Sugaree
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#69223 - 07/26/04 12:58 PM
Re: Passion Holocaust
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Registered: 03/12/04
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Loc: Decatur, Illinois
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I can testify to the fact that hormones are totally haywire during menopause. THat happened to me with my "insane" episode. I used to say, "If I see a (certain car) with two people in it, then it will be a sign from God that our relationship is right. I would see what I was looking for and think all would be well. I was fooling myself, and not really listening to God at all. Just to my sex-starved, loved starved, emotion starved body! I know, I have been there.
Sherri
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#69224 - 07/26/04 01:16 PM
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quote: Originally posted by Sugaree: no other has ever made me feel like that. But then, no other has hurt me so badly either. When I was with him, I just felt so deprived of the joys of sex since I'd never felt like that. Like I said, I always thought that sex was just over-rated until 'Lance.' Sugaree
You say no one has ever made you feel like that, but no one has hurt you so badly either. Sounds like an endorphin rush. You know the greater the pain the greater the endorphin gain....
And maybe no other has ever made you feel like "that" before because you have never been this age before. Maybe this crazy hormone sex stuff is God's compensation for everything else that starts sagging around middle age.
You think? smile
Send on the Chips!!!
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#69225 - 07/26/04 08:49 PM
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Registered: 02/24/04
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Loc: Nevada
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Sugaree, I have more experience with this type of worm/man than anyone. I've stroked the ego of thousands, (yes thousands) of these losers for years as their phone sex confidant. I, like the other women here am not so gentle with my advice. He is a worm, a selfish over-sexed maggot that knew your weakness and took full advantage. You on the other hand have become a sex addict as well and are trying your best to make it sound like something it is not. Nothing will ever change with this con man, nothing...Move on, pick up your marbels and go home. Buy a good vibrator if need be but run far and fast from this creep. This same type of asshole use to call me and brag about women like you, nice, good women looking for love and finding hot SEX, something they weren't use to....these men laughed at the women they talked about. Be happy he didn't give you something permanent, like HIV.....The truth isn't always nice and usually not pretty...sorry about that!
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#69228 - 07/28/04 12:16 AM
Re: Passion Holocaust
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Chatty, I read your other post about your book and the details of your past job. I understand when you say 'thousands' now. LOL. I must have misread something. I thought that you were telling me 'thousands' in another way. WHEW, what a relief! Now that experience leaves you with a wealth of info for poor lost 'deprived' women like myself, confused about what to do with maggots, huh? God has his mysterious ways of placing His helpers on His term and time. Sugaree Sugaree
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