Beachlady a very warm welcome to you...

WesternBluebird if you go back and read a lot of the posts you'll see that most of the women are complaining about 'not enough' or 'no attention' from their husband. That these men cheat on them by giving their time to magazines, TV, computers or worse - other women. Unless you haven't stated things completely, from what I've read your husband is oversexed BUT he wants 'you' and 'only you' right. You also stated he is finally beginning to pay attention to your other needs. Sounds like maybe he is not such a bad guy after all and remember (all of you ladies) you've faked it for all the previous years not wanting to make waves and never were honest about your true feelings and now you act surprised that he hasn't a clue what those real feelings are, well DAH!!!!