I hear all of you, and am doing what I need to (this time) to protect myself, both emotionally and financially. As far as him worshiping the ground I walk on, well he doesn't do that anymore, quite obvious isn't it.. What I was trying to say is that when we are together intimately I can tell his words "I love being with you" are meaningful.. don't ask how I can tell it's in his voice. But that is very short lived and when the emotional attachment has past, well it has past.

Yes, his Ex's and children of his Ex's have both said they cheated on him. Also his father has caught one of them.

Thank you all for your prayers. Prayers are very powerful. Well guys got to work today, so I'll check back tonight. I do not have the internet at work.

Thanks again for the prayers and insight.

I believe that sometimes these guys are sending us very strong hints that they are going to do what they want to do regardless of how it makes us feel. They're selfish. And, maybe they love us as much as they can love anyone but in the whole scope of things, it isn't a very nice or giving love. We need to listen when we're in this type of situation. Our spirit doesn't lie.

When my abusive husband used to tell me he loved me, his words sounded true. They really did but his actions proved he couldn't love.

Yes Dianne I agree, saying it and doing it are two different things. Anyone can talk the talk, it's walking the walk that causes trips and falls.
Love is not something that diminishes with time, it's something that grows stronger and stronger every day. I like to think of it as a rock. Bad times and words chip away at it. Tears erode it. It cannot be built back up without adhesive. encouragment, caring and understanding, polish it, streghten it and make it shine. The more it's cared for the more beautiful it becomes.

hurtangel, I am praying for both you and your husband today.

Luv
chick

[ June 21, 2005, 12:10 PM: Message edited by: chickadee ]

hurtangel, are you in counseling at this time? Yes, I think it's improtant for your husband to be in counseling alone, but I also think there's a counselor out there who can help you sort your feelings, actions, and future. It's always best to have a professional in the mix.

I am praying for you and your husband. I am not one to say pack up your bags and leave, but I do believe in women using our God given strengths to work out hurtful situations and live the life God wants for us.