I agree with Chatty, Blue. They don't change their spots. A cheat is a cheat. I just went back and read your original post. I email with a lot of people. Some of them are men. A few of them I don't know from a hole in the wall, but they aren't private conversations and they're not everyday. My husband can read the emails. If he's telling you she "gets him" and she's "easy to get along with," something is rotten in cyberspace. He should not be having an email relationship of that nature with another woman plain and simple. You have a right to be angy. He's trying to turn it around on you to cover his own hide.
Louisa