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Originally posted by BLUE66:
things remain the same, great on the surface, but I know he still chats with her...
I can still really flip out when I let myself think about it.
That is what I heard beyond the small talk. And it is difficult to see the pain it appears to cause.

It seemed as if you might be wondering things like,
How long does he expect to continue to 'chat' with "her?" How long can I "live" on the surface? How can I avoid "thinking" about it? And how can I avoid "flipping out?"
Maybe you could ask those questions of yourself, and him.

If I misread your post, please forgive me. You just still sound worried. And I know I would be.
Either way, we will be here for you.
smile