I have to mention chatty's post about the missing thong. Way too funny!

msdiana, have you told him how you feel with compassion in your voice? Sometimes our delivery is so important. Instead of "Why dont' you want to do anything these days?" , how about "Honey, I'm getting concerned because you don't seem to want to do anything lately."

Be sure to let him know you are getting concerned. IS there anything you've always wanted to do together, but haven't been able to because of the children? Maybe now's the time to pursue it.

Please keep taking to us about this and we'll help you try to get it resolved.