When my husband retired, which was a joke because he started working again after one year, we were suddenly together all the time and started getting on each others nerves. He was used to having an executive assistant that did everything for him and poor man, how confused he was to think I would take her place. He also didn't realize I had my own life. What's for lunch? I don't know, what are YOU fixing?

Just recently, we found a joint passion. I'm working on my family tree and my gg grandfather died in the Civil War and my husband is a nut on that war so we're taking a trip to the battle field where he died. Now, I'm a nut on this war. So, maybe you could find a passion that both of you share. What does he read or watch on tv? My husband has more videos on wars than anyone I know. This has really helped our marriage.