i have a 19 yr old girl...she and her friends have the thong showing above the back of their jeans...it is kinda cute and frankly, if the fashion had been such when i had a cute bod, i'd've worn it like that too...

but i digress with a marriage question

for about the last two years, life has become increasingly more exciting for me as the kids are more grown and independent (12, 19 and 20)...
i've been able to concentrate more and more on my writing and other creative outlets...it's been fun...
the problem is my husband...he seems more and more content to just "be"...he recently replaced his motorcycle with a pretty hot number and he does ride now and then but other than that he just hangs around, no other interests, no hobbies...to get him to go anywhere or do anything is a chore and, even though he has a good time, it's not worth the effort to get him going...even the kids have resigned themselves to not asking him for anything because you can't get a straight answer from him and it's just too much work to get him out of the house...
it bothers me that it doesn't bother me more to leave him behind more and more...more than that is that i've started to feel lonely...i thorougly enjoy my time with the kids and am glad they want to hang out with me given their ages, but i'd really like to hang out with my husband...i'm lonely for him...sigh...