A friend of mine stopped in this afternoon she was smiling for the first time in awhile. It seems her husband had become too intereted of late in porn on the computer and pleasuring himself, so I gave her an answer to give to him when he says there is nothing wrong with it.

You see a man I speak to on my job usually twice each week was found out by his spouse. This story is funny in a way....He works from home and she outside the home. She rises early and he works late so sleeps in. One morning he arose and went downstairs to get his coffee. She decided to stay home and be playful this particular day and hid in the spare room. She waited about 20 minutes and tip toed downstairs dressed in her flimsiest negligee. She thought she heard talking and so she listened near the study door. What she heard shocked her and when she finally peeked inside there he was on the phone with self in hand saying loving things to someone on the other end. She went into the kitchen picked up the phone and said, "don't be shy witch-B come on over"....Needless to say after composing himself, he made the usual excuses, it means nothing, what are you doing home blah, bla, bla, bla, blah...He went up, dressed and stormed out of the house as he shouted "how dare you invade my privacy." When he got home later that evening with a huge bouquet of flowers in hand he found her mother and father, his sisters and brother-in-laws and his own mother sitting in the living room. His wife stood and said, "alright what you are doing is not wrong you say, I am wrong. Tell it to the family and see what they have to say. I dare you." Pretty smart lady I would say. It seems he was put through the wringer pretty good and the marriage is still in tact....

The man that has one or more of these addictions doesn't mind if you know as the wife but doesn't want anyone else to know and thats ALWAYS the case.

I told my friend the story and she threatened to bring her husbands family into it and he stopped. They took a long vacation and he got rid of the computer all together. She is thrilled and brought me a wonderful book she knew I wanted to get. She thinks I am a genius, NOT! I learned this from my phone sex customer, he called me once more to say good-bye and told me the story of what happened. I wished him well and told him to be honest and he'd be happier....

So you see they never want anyone to know of their perversions, why not???
Because ITS WRONG thats why not....