I like to refer to sex as making love. Corny, huh?

I don't think quantity counts unless it's important to the couple. As long as hubby and wife are communicating about the act and the desire(though maybe not the energy)then it should work. What about quality? Are we working at the quality of our lovemaking with our spouses?

Think of yourself as the only person on the face of the earth who can give your spouse sexual pleasure. Kinda cool, huh?

Talk with them about being the only person who can bring you sexual pleasure.

Maybe communication and a new attitude can help.

Remember, we are to put each other first in our marriages. If one person feels they aren't "getting enough", don't you think the other party should oblige them? Where else can they "get it"? No one should feel the need to go outside the marriage. Heaven forbid.

Another two cents...