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#63653 - 10/26/05 04:12 PM
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Registered: 07/09/08
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Loc: Maryland
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DJ, thanks for your research. What is the name of the book that you submitted this for?
Since I am the host of this site and beleive wholeheartedly in the mission I will share the following:
I know we have issues on occasion with people being ignored or misunderstood. I do not think it's intentional. I come here every day and spend 1-2 hours posting. For some reason I didn't even open this forum/topic until today. Naughty me. I do the best I can. I try to read every single post, and usually do, but I jump around. I'm probably ADD.
I have thought and prayed about this issue. The only thing I can come up with is paying women to monitor specific forums...and I can't do that right now. Maybe as the association continues to take off I will be able to do so.
In a perfect forum every woman would get:
-a thanks for registering email -a message that stated "someone replied to your post at BWS" -a reply to every post -lots of PM's, etc.
Let me share this:
BWS is receiving 1.3 million hits for every 30 day period so I can venture to say that women love this site. Needs are being met. They lurk, take what suits them and their beliefs, tell friends, post, make friends, give and receive advice, and even go so far as to meet face to face!
I refuse to let the occasional negative comments outweigh all that is good at BWS. A few years ago I would have been striving for perfection. Now I know that's not possible, and it's okay. Onward. [ October 26, 2005, 01:13 PM: Message edited by: Dotsie ]
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#63655 - 10/26/05 06:11 PM
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Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 2560
Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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1.3 million hits every 30 days is nothing short of amazing, Dotsie! Onward, indeed.
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#63656 - 10/26/05 06:19 PM
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Registered: 09/26/04
Posts: 3910
Loc: Alabama
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DJ, I read your post yesterday and took it as an info statement. I thought it was quite interesting and went on about getting to my "other" posts that I was checking on for replies/to reply to etc. Not too many. Good, I thought. I monitor 2 posts and keep an eye on another here. If you check my "view recent posts" you will notice that I am the last poster to many of them. I treat this as a "closed" topic unless I have something else to say. Being the last poster to a topic or not having one answered is going to happen, especially now with all the newbies, even with monitors...
If I need an answer, I will speak up. If I don't, it's no biggie.
I am not easily offended -do you think that has something to do with people leaving? Did you have any indiction of this in your research?
I am commenting on your posts today for 2 reasons. 1. It got me wondering - hence, my questions to you . 2. If you felt offended ( whether you were or not) I felt I needed to explain. It's what I do.
I think we need to write a boomer creed and add...i.e.
If I'm not being (noticed?) but info I need to gain. I'll state it in my next post I will rattle a chain.(I know, hey it's the best I can come up with right now, but 'you get my drift?"
Dotsie, here's a suggestion - Have a contest to write a "BWS" creed that we can put on the site. A newbie's creed? Heck I don't know. There has to be a way...
I honestly feel that BWS is like real life...people meet, take what they want, give what they want and either stay or move on. Some speak their mind and some stay quiet. Some are leaders, some are followers and some are not, I guess.
DJ, do you check for unanswered posts often? I try. I believe Chatty is really good at that. She's hitting at a couple of thousand posts. Way to go Chatty. It has to take a lot of time. i don't always have it.
Just my two bits. chick [ October 26, 2005, 03:27 PM: Message edited by: chickadee ]
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#63658 - 10/26/05 07:57 PM
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Registered: 07/08/05
Posts: 245
Loc: Ocala Florida
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DJ I think you have really defined this website. I especially related to the issue of safety here. If someone is particularly sensitive and a little different they could not be comfortable here.But sometimes it takes women who are a little different to open up a whole wide wonderful world out there. DJ you are one smart woman
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#63660 - 10/26/05 09:10 PM
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Registered: 02/24/04
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Loc: Nevada
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#63662 - 10/27/05 11:38 PM
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Registered: 11/22/02
Posts: 1149
Loc: Ohio
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I appreciate the kind words. Thank you.
Dots -- I don't think you should worry about negative comments or people who don't want to stay on BWS. After all, millions watch baseball, but not everyone wants to play it.
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