I see what you mean Stacy M and in answer to the question of home. My home is my sanctuary, I feel safe, secure and peaceful there. When I was hospitalized awhile back I longed for the comfort of my own bed, my own space. My blood pressure which was sky high went down to normal a couple hours after I arrived home and walked around soaking up the familiarity of my space. When I truly care about someone I invite them into my home and hope they feel the warmth and love that lives there. My house is a home....