Came as no surprise to me due to the way you referred to your soul mate in your other posts. Never saying husband. I hope you realize you will find no moral judments made here as to your private life. Just happy to have you and its nice to hear about someone whose truly happy.

whittle

i am only new heer but have discused all sorts of thing's from marrige to religion, to god, diffrent religions. It's openly knowen that i am popea's GF i concived and carried a child (L he is 3) that we set about planed and co-created a childmy partner the (popea) has a son 20.

I have been disagreed with but never harshly or with hate or prejidice. I can take people disagreeing with me as they have their own views morals religious view point etc and don't need the agreement....

What i am trying to say is that people do give their honest view about whatever the topic is but not with bullieying or hate or telling you that you are rong....We all get entitled to air and share our views and it's always respectfull.....In short your safe, i am safe so is popea and all the other quiter lesbians....it's quite shockingly refreshing to find that level of maturity and wisdom amounst a group of people but it's tried and tested and it is heer..... enjoy it, it's real, to the best of my ability i have found it to be so.

Why not get your partner to join up to and take part in the forum.....it's fun for all. Thats just a suggestion....

p.s. the holly near a dead givaway, lol and as chatty said the refrance's you use for your partner, chatty's a sharp woman

celtic_flame

oh one more thing ladies on a personal note, lesbianisum for me ain't about sex or sexule prefrences or sexule practices....It's just an ordinary life with the usule experiences and some less common one's too.

I openly disclose who my parner is becouse if i don't I am or it is assumed that I am hetrosexule and my partner is a man, in some strange way this feels like i am lying to you or anyone who knows me...Being truthfull is important to me

I freely disclose and have dun since I was in my 20's about my lifestyle, in social situasion, work, church or chaples, that's not in my mind pushing anything on people but being open and truthfull about who I am. As open as i am about anyother factor in my life...

I don't and will not support the sepritist movment within lesbianisum......I favour the unity movment, we are all one and it is only throw familuarity and common identificasion do we get the chance to see we all have thing's in common and not so common experiences, that we are all loved equally by the one god outside religious doctrinasion, which may be right for you and that is fine but runs countra to my lifestyle which is also fine in my eye's. I made my peace and my stance with my god and my religion a long time ago. On this point is don't need to be right in your eyes or version of faith but i do need to be right in my own eye's for my own peace of mind, i could't cope with living a life that i belived was sinfull or wrong in the working of the universe or in my god/ess, higher power's eyes.

Some religions say i am wrong and that i am a Sinner. In NI they protest loudly and aggresivly and i still respect their right to their view's becouse i understand them to be human and in their hart's their following their calling. Just my hart diffrent and has a diffrent calling in relashion to spiritule practice and choice of partner....

love you all

celtic_flame

God created life, all life. We will answer to our creator in the end. AMEN.

what is christian about opposing inter racial marriages.
I feel that if homosexual marriange is against a church's tenets. then that church should not allow its members to marry if they are homosexual. The catholic church does not allow its members to marry a divorced individual. Neither does the church of England. What is the problem with a non church marriage. My mom did twice and my both my grams did twice.

oops my grams did once apiece. I was typing instead of counting sorry

hi auntie

i dont know you yet so look forwared to it in the future.

Theirs nuthing wrong with a registry marrige or joinning cerimony. It's legal and fits with the system within the country at lest it dose heer. One thing any move towards equality needs is legislation for protection and to curb those that do discriminate.

I would and do also require a spiritule eliment to a marrige cerimony i do belive god is higher authority to "the laws of the land" some of the orginised religions don't agree with the homesexuality issue and as you pointed out the divorced remarrage issue, which effects a whole lot more people.

For me both are important the legality and the spiruality, but for my partners protection and our son then the lagality offers them most protection.

The only religion organisasion i know of that offers commitment cerimonies to same sex couple and divorcies and single parents etc is the Spirutalist churches.

This church is one of the few or only (that i know of) "legal" churches as due to descriminasion they had to get their church regonised and credited as a "proper" religion throw the eurpean union or parliment. So legaly it is classed as a religion.

celtic_flame

I feel prejudice and judging others is a form of control. "You must believe as I do or you're a sinner and going to hell."

dianne

good point, a lot of prejuidece is about controling somone or somethng...just i never thought of it as blatently as that, thanks.

On a lighter not do you think you could talk me throw "walking in high heels" course po 6foot 9 and i a tiny in comparison 5 foot 6 and she wairring heels. I will get left behind looking at her knews soon unless i learn the high heel walking trick

ohhhhhhh if life wasen't difficult enough lol

celtic_flame

The Bible Thumpers think they're the only ones going to Heaven. Same sex relationships are frowned on because the frowners wish they had the guts to live as they please.
They're jealous. They're envious. And envy is one step away from hate. And people haters, hate anyone who is the slightest bit different then they are!!!!