That's nothing, compared to my son in law. He's the grandkids stepfather, but he's such a control freak that the family members have not been allowed to see them for 2 years now, and my daughter, the b-witch, allows him to do this. He abuses her and the 2 kids, drinks, does hard drugs and leaves stuff where kids can find it, and he smokes cigarettes around them, and he won't work. Social services has been in there 5 times, once because I called, and the other family members did too, and a couple neighbors called. My daughter dropped out of college to support this dude, and his daughter from another b-witch. I don't even get pics or talk to them on the phone. Do you girls know what a freak I feel like, sitting outside the fence at the elementary school, trying to take a picture of my grandson on the playground? To top it all odff, he's been to prison. Nice guy! I dream about shooting him. Angry Grandma Blaze