She came over with a police officer? Why in the world did she do that?

I have four grown children and one thing among many, that I've learned is you just have to let them learn from their own mistakes as painful as it is. That's how I learned at that age.

Sounds like the love in her life is influencing her. Maybe if that goes away, her brain will kick into gear again. I swear, they go through a span of mental craziness for a time.

If it helps, my oldest son is visiting me right now with his little family and there was a time I felt he'd never live to see 25. They do pull out of it.