Pam, I'm laughing out loud at your post. I didn't peg you as a former hippie.

Searcher, you HAVE to meet lionspaaw. She has butterfly stories too. Her son died in his very early twenties. Search her out and email her. I think you'd hit it off.

Lilac, thank for coming in. I think you'll enjoy hanging out with us. How does the one girl in the family handle it?

Tell us about your hippie days in the Remember forum if you want.

Oh, I still haven't seen the BWS mention in the AARP Bulletin. Can you please tell me what it said. I'm dying to know.